Maret 04, 2012

The idea of “I'll be angry later”

In the middle of crowded condition, a father and her daughter are visiting a woman that laying on the bed, she's comma. Time's counting down for her death. The doctors said they're really sorry for stopping the medicine, because It'd never help any better. The daughter was not really in a good relationship with her mom. She's having college in an expensive private college that leads her in a bad sexual intercourse instead. His father would her to say sorry to her mom before she's really 'gone'. But It took too hard for her to making it easy, because she know that while her Father working as a lawyer in other country, her mother was cheating on him. Until one day she went to the beach to play 'jetski' and got accident which lead her into her comma ight now.

Father keeps telling the daughter to say sorry for everything she's done. But again, she's giving up to try not to yell to her mother. And she finally say to her Father:
D: "I can't do this because I'm mad to her! How could I end this up by saying sorry for all the mistakes she's done beyond?"
F: "Just say sorry to her, for every mistakes you've done to her"
D: "Well..I can't. How could you be so forgiving, Dad? She cheated on you! You should be mad at her!"
F: "I'll be angry later, so now just say sorry to your mom"

After that the daughter finally say her sorry to the mother. And she's crying all the way home.

The point I got is a simple thing. I pick the sentence "I'll be angry later" is such a waow! How he holds out his anger just to let the things get done peacefully. But that sentence also have another state point, it depends on where your point of view see this thing. "I'll be angry later" could be considered as a vengeance by saving your energy to revenge today, but you'll give it in another chance. Yea, it could be like that. But, for me, the concept of holding out your anger by saying "I'll be angry later" is such a good idea to calm down. In a present, I have a positive hope, that It will work on me for calming down. Yea, "I'll be angry later" which means "Hopefully I would forget all these craps in the middle of holding out my anger until i-dont-know when, then forgive those things all the way"

Haha, hopefully :D
I'm sorry for the random post

Nice one.

Watch yout thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for become actions. Watch your actions, for they become habits. Watch your habits, for they become your character. And watch your character, for it becomes your destiny. What we think, we become.

— Margareth's Father, Iron Lady